Monday, April 4, 2011

AHA! Moment

These last several weeks have definitely been about me learning: learning about Eva, what makes her laugh, what she doesn't like, what her squeals mean, what her cries mean, when she's tired, when she's hungry or thirsty. You get the point.

I have been trying to stay on top of my organization around the house. I know me. If things start getting away from me in the house, then I'm done for. It will spiral and I won't be able to catch up on laundry, dishes, etc. I have used a cleaning schedule for a while now; well over a year now. I do a couple of things each day instead of trying to do everything in 2 days. I thought for sure that I could get back on track when we got home with Eva. I mean, really, how hard could it be? Just stick to the schedule.

I was determined to get things done while she was taking her naps. That lasted for a few days. Then I found myself needing to nap when she napped. Well there went my things to do. Because John works long hours, I had to wait until he came home so that I could get the rest of my chores done. Eventually, that kind of fizzled out too.

Before we went to Ethiopia for our 2nd trip, we bought a baby carrier. I thought I would use it mostly in Ethiopia and then eventually on walks when it got warm enough. But John told me that I would be using it around the house to carry the baby in. Although I agreed with him, in my head I thought "I won't need to use that. She'll be fine. I'll be able to get what I need done."

Well yesterday I finally got my

Eva was really clingy. Things that I would normally be able to go into the other room and do and come right back proved difficult. She whined every time I left the room and cried every time I had to put her down. We were up in my bedroom and I decided to put on some praise music so she could dance to it. By the middle of the 1st song, God said "Put on the baby carrier." I strapped her to my back and she was totally content for the rest of the day. She did not have to worry about being in one place because I was all over the house. The rest of the day went so much better. We were both happy.

Why am I so hardheaded sometimes? Why didn't I really listen to my husband? Praise God for teaching me. I'm still willing to learn. 

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